Monday, June 20, 2011

She's mine

Yes, you read it right. The newest addition to the Royer family - Eve. She's a lovely cross golden/lab born 10/20/08 (Annemarie's birthday is 10/20/04). I am beyond excited to have her by my side - she is truly the perfect companion.

So what exactly are we doing? I'm at a loss for words. Teaching a dog to respond to my commands is harder than teaching a child how to ride a bike. When it comes to training Eve to my leadership, it involves a multitude of steps and each one must be carefully though out or else she will get confused and give up. Today I placed a audible timer in the kitchen. When the timer activated, I commanded eve to "alert" and we did this several times until I was satisfied with the strength of the alert as well as the location in which she guided me to. Then, I moved to various locations around the kitchen or dining room, keeping my expectations minimal - I only wanted a nudge and proper guidance to the sound. Each success came with a treat and the more successes she accomplished she knew the rewards would satisfy her appetite. Finally, I added another element to the training - I asked the instructor to pretend as if she were one of my children - distracting Eve with their voice and gentle petting. Initially Eve fell for the children and ignored alerting me to the timer, but after careful patience (and more patience), Eve gradually learned to ignore the children, alert me to the sound and guide me to it. There are several components to the lesson I just shared with you - all of which take time, patience and a lot of emotion because I wanted this to work! When I get home the real deal begins, but learning the basic "structure" of teaching her to alert doesn't register in my mind (or hers, since she is slowly getting to know me). At the end of the day, it all comes back to knowing that dogs have a very different way of learning than humans and in order to achieve successful training, I must learn to think like a dog, but act as the confident leader. Woof!

I've been on a whirlwind the last few days. In between letting others use my laptop, checking work email (it never ends), studying coursework and doing exams, I have very little room to breath. Also, eating fast food for dinner every night doesn't exactly make a joyful stomach in the morning!

It was a lonely Father's day for me! I miss my family tremendously and hearing their voice over the phone just makes it all more sentimental. I can't wait to get home.

I managed to escape the furry of campus activity for a few hours on Sunday. I drove through miles of vineyards. California, oh California, such an incredible state. You, my faithful two readers in Virginia, have no idea! My goal was to find a Redwood forest. I have always dreamed of walking through one and I did just that. Pictures from my little point-and-shoot camera do not do justice to the majestic beauty a redwood tree captivates.

Last week we visited our first public establishment. We went to lunch at a local pizza joint. By the way, California stinks when it comes to Pizza. Come for In-n-Out burgers instead. You won't be disappointed. Anyway, shortly before we entered the restaurant Eve went #2. So, I had to pull out my handy poo bag and scoop it up. It wasn't the most pleasing experience, especially right before lunch, but I'm glad she went in the grass in a subtle area of the parking lot and not inside the restaurant!

Today we did a video shoot - sometimes I wish my day job was sitting in front of a camera promoting dogs and/or cochlear implants. I have been blessed with the ability to communicate and the more I am exposed to deaf and hard of hearing people throughout the United States, the more I realize there is much work to do towards reaching and educating these individuals about the many different choices available to improve their quality of life.

Later this week we are visiting the mall. We will test several areas - Eve cannot sniff the floor, she cannot sniff tables or other people and she cannot "yank" away from me if/when she hears a toy. I must keep her under control at all times in public and this will be a great opportunity to test my leadership. I'm confident Eve and I will do well!

Love to all,
Mike

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Hump day!

It’s Wednesday! So, do you hear the camels at the zoo talking about how today is hump day?

The sun shines bright into my room at 5AM which isn’t necessarily a bad thing since I’m usually getting up for work at 5:20. But…if I could get a few extra hours of rest in the morning ..Yikes, I shouldn’t complain, Alicia reads this blog. Hi honey!
Our instructors, Ken and Megan, are very disciplined, tough and rigid. They are clear-cut professionals who clearly care about how we treat our dogs. Dog training is not an occupation for everyone and I’m thankful for the professionalism Ken and Megan display.
Random tidbits…
- Ken and Megan are left handed
- We are instructed to walk with the dogs on our left
- We practice with “fluffy” the stuffed animal before using the real dog; I accidently gave fluffy a treat – ken told me “Michael, Fluffy does not have a throat”
- Overheard during our “alert” session…”She’s poking me all the time”
- I’m covered in dog drool. My hands have never felt so sterile.

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Peek-a-boo!

This dog has sired 650 PUPPIES!!!


Our instructors





The doggy playground - 1 acre. Donated by a loving individual.





I broke my promise!

I know, I told you the postings would come daily, but alas… training is grueling. This is not your average “fluffy sit, down, yes yes… atta girl” Actually, I let someone borrow my laptop.
I have concluded our training is beyond veterinary school 101 – 501. Today we have learned what resistance is, how dogs demonstrate it, what my emotional state should be when I give a correction, timing of corrections and what a set-up is. But, it’s very fun and an interactive environment.
Speaking of environment, we had another day of temperatures in the low 80’s – beautiful.
Now finally.. a PICTURE! Scroll below and then go about your way. JUST KIDDING! I have my dog but I’m unable to reveal her name and breed. You will have to wait until Friday. Until then, please enjoy the photos.

Random Tidbits…
- We do not have cable TV at home; I have total access to the “dish network” here. I’m constantly reminded how trashy television is. First of all, why do we need the oprah winfrey network? I don’t like Dr. Phil 24/7. ESPN, ABC, NBC, Comcast suits me well. I settled with game 6 of the Stanley cup playoffs. Boston Vs. Vancouver. Hockey is incredibly gruesome. 27 seconds into the game a player was checked into the boards and fractured his vertebrae.
- The fruit is fresh off the local farms. SO DARN GOOD. Strawberries, strawberries, strawberries.. someone please make me shortcake!
- One of the instructors, Ken, is an avid biker and runner. He has incredibly big calves.
- I would live in California. Not sure about Alicia.
- I really miss my family!
















Monday, June 13, 2011

Sunrise in California

A close-up photo of my wall
The temporary bachelor pad



Nothing truly comares to the beauty the morning view from my dorm room. Today is the first full day of instruction - exciting times!

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Day 1 sunset

Good evening! It is 1:40 AM eastern time; Thank goodness for the "mood lighting" on Virgin America's flights because they certainly calmed my mood over the noise of 5 screaming kids! The CCI campus is beautiful, and large! The average temperature is 65 degrees which is a welcome break from the 95-100 degree humidity in DC.

There are 5-7 other "students" in my class; all with various degrees of hearing loss (and definition i.e., "hearing impaired" "hard of hearing" etc). No one uses sign language. THe more stories I hear, the more thankful I am of the community and support I have of friends and family. It seems that some of the students are the only deaf people in their town or even county and their struggles to communicate are profound.

Training officially kicks off at 9AM. Can't wait!

And so it begins

9:35 am: Yesterday we celebrated Joshua's 5th birthday party. As expected, it was a load of work but the children had a great time.

I managed to find a few minutes in the airport terminal before boarding my flight to San Francisco. My wife and kids gave me an emotional goodbye. No shortage of tears and plenty of "I want to go daddy!!" Why am I such an emotional mess? I guess I can work that one out with my therapist.